That is not common sense that is good ethical concern mixed in with appropriate fish husbandry.. I do not think anyone here is saying put a whale shark in a 20 gallon. What I am saying is there are conditional factors to take into account when housing any fish, you can not pigeon hole this into a blanket rule. What one may say is an improper tank size, someone else may be spawning their fish in. We really are not in disagreement here Arthur, I do know what you are saying, I do not disagree with you, but in saying it in a vague manner one can come up with 40 different exclusions that test it. Hence it becomes a dogmatic truism that is not exactly encompassing of all species needs or situations. Loads or Anecdotal and empirical information also clearly states that certain species do not reach sizes in captivity that they do in the wild. With a clear knowledge and understanding of the mechanics of fish growth and physiology (on a species basis) some of these hobby truisms really are kind of silly...(in some cases actually detrimental)
Again this is not true... Fish do not always live longer in captivity when compared to their wild average even when kept properly.. Some might, I'm not arguing this, but this is not a fact. Some species in captivity will burn out much faster than they do in the wild just because conditions are too good. Some good examples of this are with some Minnow species, Killifish and Livebearer species and of coarse my favorite the Lamprey.. Again you can not blanketly say all species will react to fit the same pigeon hole we give them...
Perhaps I have been a bit vague. I know that the topic itself is a sticky one. I feel however that what the OP is eluding to is a dangerous thought process. What he calls "dwarfing" a fish most would call "stunting" a fish and stunting a fish in all the examples I can think of is not a good thing. Not even in nature. Some species stunt easily and seem to survive without a problem. Trout are a good example. Stream trout don't reach the size that lake dwelling trout do but they also don't live nearly as long. Sunfish stunt easily as well but this is due to negative environmental factors (overpopulation, lack of resources, inbreeding etc.) and also is of no benefit to the fish. Stunting is known to have negative side effects on various species. Perhaps I'm just speaking for myself here but I always though that proper fishkeeping meant taking the best possible care of the fish that you can provide. If that is done there should be very little to hinder growth. Nitrates and ammonia, pH, diet, temperature, DO, stress...all these factors play a part in fish growth. To try and purposely dwarf a fish because it might be easy to do so would require caring for the fish improperly. I know you agree but I'm not sure the OP does.